“I haven’t been everywhere, but it’s on my list.” – Susan Sontag
It’s been quite a while since I last wrote. And no, there are no apologies for not writing, other than that I have just been to busy living. The past few weeks have been a whirlwind of events, trips and just busy times, and I simply didn’t have the energy to write. The story I had to write became longer and longer, and more of a burden to write.
However, you have to get back on the horse someday. So I will tell you the whole story. Though this time I won’t use words, but pictures.
Going to Nanjing with Lea, 18-19 May
After the weekend Nanjing it was back to work. We had a VERY busy day, because that Thursday (May 23rd) was BenCham Shanghai’s Annual General Meeting (AGM). Basically this is where the Board presents the latest update on BenCham – how we’re doing financially, whether we’re growing, how many member’s we have, which goals we have reached this year, etc. Then, the old Board gets dismissed and a new one is chosen.
As you might understand the AGM meat a LOT of work. It started Monday when Mariska had the financial audit. Half of the week I was calling our members to make sure that they would be present at the meeting. In the end we had about 60 attendees, which was very nice.
The event itself was Thursday night and we still had many last-minute things (presentations, banners, flyers, etc.) to prepare. All-in-all it was a very busy week. But the AGM went great, which was really nice!:)
The Friday after, Mariska gave us both the morning off and a free lunch. In the morning I went to the Clothing/Tailor Market to pick up the suit and dress I had made and after I went to the office. We had a very nice and easy day, which was great after the AGM. We started easy and then went out for lunch to Wagas (great for more western food if you get tired of rice for lunch). It was sunny and gorgeous weather and we really took it more relaxed that day. Really something we needed! 🙂
After this busy and hectic week, I went back to the Netherlands for one week. This is because my father got his PhD on the 28th of May!!
I left Shanghai on Saturday and arrive in the Netherlands late Saturday evening. After a quiet Sunday and a Monday being busy catching up with many people, we had the official PhD ceremony on Tuesday afternoon at the Universiteit Utrecht.
In the Netherlands, getting your PhD still has a whole official ceremony in which the ‘defendant’ (guy who almost gets his PhD) has to defend his/her thesis against a jury. The defendant has 2 assistants called “paranimfen” who are there to help him/her. For my dad, my brother and I were the paranimfen.
Usually the ceremony really is just a ceremony and you can’t do much wrong, so of course my dad got his PhD!!:)
So I just want to make a little mention of how proud I am of him! I experienced a little of the process of getting to this point (when we were on holiday in Vietnam last year he was finishing the thesis) and I am really incredibly proud!!:)
Here are some impressions of the day:
The rest of the week was just very nice, being back home for a little while. Again I met up with many friends and was actually very busy. On Thursday I spent a day with Dagmar in Amsterdam, which was also very good. We went to the Pijp, which is a very nice district centering around the Albert Cuyp Market. We walked there from the Central Station, which was actually quite a long walk, but the weather was luckily very nice. De Pijp is a district with very nice and cute shops and cafes and also the Albert Cuyp market which is very nice.
One of the places we went for lunch was a cafe called ‘De Taart van M’n Tante’ (My Aunties Pie/Cake). It’s owned by a very good baker who has a TV show for children called ‘de Taarten van Abel’ (Abel’s Pies/Cakes), which was one of my favorite shows when I was young. So it was actually really nice to sit there in this quaint, cute little shop and have some delicious pie and hot chocolate. (check their website here: http://www.detaart.nl/nl/home.htm)
After a great and fun week in the Netherlands I went back to Shanghai. And coming back there was wonderful, I was really happy to be back in the vibrant, energetic and independent atmosphere here. Just to be back on my own in my little apartment and at work, was really nice.
Getting back to work it was a week filled with goodbyes. Wynanda, Carmen, Anne and Lin were all leaving, which was kind of sad. Monday evening we had a goodbye dinner in Pasha (nice Turkish restaurant) with the office. It was really a lot of fun and a good ending.
During the week I was working a lot with Lin, because I took over her project: the Best of BenCham Award Ceremony Dinner. This needs to be organized for November and I’m very busy with that. However, now Lin has left and the office the past week has been quite empty. We have a new interim colleague for Wynanda – called Justine – however she will also only be here for a short while.
Last weekend I had a nice weekend. On Friday we went to Perry’s (the new one) with people from 2-Shanghai which is always a lot of fun. From Monday to Wednesday it was a Chinese National Holiday (the Dragon Boat Festival), so many people of the group were going on nice trips, to Hongong, Xiamen, Changzhou, Beijing and more.
Saturday I got up really late and had a very relaxed day. I went for lunch with a Dutch friend, Jelle, near People’s Square. Just off the square is a little road with very Chinese food. We went to get some Shanghainese (fried) dumplings with soup. They were very delicious, but impossible to eat without splashing soup all over my face!
After this I went on a little shopping trip on Nanjing Road. I know it sounds very culturally retarded, but here in China I mostly shop at stores like H&M and Forever 21. However, it is really just impossible to get nice clothes in the right size from Chinese stores – because Chinese women usually are a much smaller size than my Northern European 38/40.
However, the Saturday was nice. I also had dinner with Jelle at a nice place and we watched a movie at night. (Great movie ‘the last boy scout’. Really fun, kickass action and nice in an 80s/90s setting.)
Sunday I had a big ‘spring clean’, doing all my laundry, tidying my room etc. etc. This is because I would go to Beijing for 3 days and after that my mom would come to stay with me! Plus, after almost 2 months it’s not too bad to tidy up my messy room.
On Monday morning (EARLY…) I took the train from Shanghai Hongqiao station to Beijing. The train ride was 5.5 hours, which was pretty long. However it was over soon – thanks to the season 2 episodes of Game of Thrones, which I had downloaded to my computer before I left.
In Beijing I met up with my dad, who was there for business. I stayed with him in the hotel from Monday to Wednesday, which was really fun. We didn’t do much touristic things, just walking around and shopping a little at the Silk Market. Or actually, we shopped a lot. In total we have bought 6 pairs of Converse Allstars, reading glasses for my dad (he always buys them here and is now just stocking up) and glasses for me (I have a cilinder, so also a prescription). You won’t believe how easy and how cheap it is to make glasses with a prescription here. They just take a look at your current glasses and copy the lenses from that. So for about 600 RMB (80 euros) I had 1 pair of sunglasses and 2 pairs of regular glasses made. Incredible!
On Tuesday in Beijing we went to the football/soccer match between the Netherlands and China. This was really fun. We were all in orange and seated in the Orange section. Unbelievable how many Dutch people were there! Although there were also many Chinese people in orange, which was really funny. Outside the station they sold tons of orange football shirts, though only with the names of Robben and van Persie.
The game was really just fun to watch and it was good time hanging out with my dad. Of course we won (2-0), so that required a nice party at Hooters (I know right?) afterwards.
Wednesday we didn’t do anything special, just walking around, going to Wangfujing and having a fun time. I left again by train at 5 and arrived late in Shanghai.
Thursday I was back at work and my mom arrived by plane around 10:30 AM. She came to my office (by metro – which takes forever, seriously, take the Maglev!) and I brought her home from there. I showed her the room and we had some nice lunch after which I went back to work. After work we walked around the neighborhood a little and went for dinner at Ajisen Ramen – a nice, not too expensive Japanese restaurant.
Of course after her long flight and my busy days we went to bed early.
The weekend dad was also in Shanghai and together with both my parents I really had a fun and touristic weekend. But I’ll post about that later this week, to give you a break 😉
Again, my apologies for the super-late update, but I hope you liked it:)
Until next time!
With love,
Xx Cee